August 28, 2025 Remo Giuffré

The Gen Z stare is a phrase coined by social media users to describe a blank stare that members of younger generations give in situations where a verbal response would be more common. Depending on who you ask, it’s either a symptom of declining social skills, potentially linked to COVID-19 disruptions – or a silent protest against awkward encounters and outdated expectations, and a characteristic of a generation that has been firehosed with content and seen it all in a relatively short period of time.

Kalhan Rosenblatt of NBC News says, “while there are several definitions for the stare, the most common meaning is a vacant expression a Gen Zer gives in response to a question. The stare occurs in classrooms, restaurants, at work and other settings”. The term "Gen Z stare" garnered widespread coverage in the mainstream media in July 2025.

At its core, the Gen Z Stare is an exaggerated blank look – eyes open, lips neutral – usually deployed when someone says something considered outdated, cringe or overly enthusiastic. It’s not aggressive like an eye-roll; it’s quieter, almost existential. The stare functions as a minimalist reaction, a non-verbal “okay, boomer” for the 2020s.

As mentioned, regarding the possible root causes of the Gen Z stare, there are lots of competing theories: authentic boredom, resistance to performative positivity, an expression of “quiet quitting”, a manifestation of social anxiety developed during the enforced isolation of the COVID pandemic period, inexperience with real life social interaction and so-called “small talk” niceties. The influence of social media may also have led to a fear of being judged or "cancelled" online. Not wanting to be "cringe" is additionally a common theme.

The trend first gained traction on TikTok around 2022, where creators stitched videos together using the stare as a punchline. It often followed statements that reflected millennial humour, parental advice or corporate attempts at being “relatable”. Soon, the stare became a shared shorthand for awkwardness and generational dissonance.

Unlike the dramatic side-eye of previous eras, this is pure deadpan minimalism. It reflects a generation raised in an always-on digital environment, where overreacting can feel performative and unnecessary. By doing almost nothing, Gen Z makes the loudest statement: we’re unimpressed.

Not only does it convey ironic distance and mock the expectation of engagement, it also manifests an anti-try-hard culture. For Gen Z, trying too hard is social kryptonite. Whether it’s brands chasing trends or influencers overselling positivity, the stare dismantles enthusiasm with surgical precision.

There’s also a deeper cultural undertone. The stare reflects digital burnout and a collective shrug toward constant novelty. Where previous generations might have fired back with sarcasm or passion, Gen Z defaults to the facially expressive equivalent of meh – a coping mechanism in an overwhelming world.

The Gen Z stare is the performance of non-performance that only a generation fluent in memes could perfect.

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Generations, Birth Years and Ages

Generation	Birth Years (Approx.)	Current Age (2025)
Silent Generation	1928 – 1945	80 – 97 years
Baby Boomers	1946 – 1964	61 – 79 years
Generation X	1965 – 1980	45 – 60 years
Millennials (Gen Y)	1981 – 1996	29 – 44 years
Generation Z	1997 – 2012	13 – 28 years
Generation Alpha	2013 – 2025	0 – 12 years